Having a boring sex life? This 31-day-challenge will turn your life around for good
Sex is not a taboo anymore. It’s necessary for everyone to know that sex is a very common event which one has or will experience at some point in their lifetime. There is nothing wrong to talk about it publicly but mind you, talk smart about sex while discussing openly for there are people with narrow minds.
Sex is apparently a very important part of a relationship. Sex helps you get a clear idea about your mutual understanding and the trust levels. There is no harm, but mutual consent is a must. Necessary precautions should be taken to ensure safe and carefree sex.
Now like every other couple you must be wondering that what can you both do to spice up your sex life and make it more interesting, right?
Well, here’s a 30-day challenge which you both take part in and it will definitely be different from your regular sex schedule. Check Out:
Day 1—Have sex at a time other than before bed. Lunchtime romp, morning sex, or after work workout.
Day 2— Browse a list, book of sex positions, or watch a Kama Sutra video together. Pick a few new positions to try. Be sure to tell your partner what you think looks enjoyable and why. Stick to the easy stuff. No point getting an injury on day 2.
Day 3—Have sex twice in a day.
Day 4—Read erotica together before sex. Find good erotica online and pick a short story each.
Day 5—Shower sex. Be extra soapy but use caution. Water-based lube is advised.
Day 6— Full body massage before initiating sex.
Day 7— Quickie. 10 minutes or less. Try someplace/time fun.
Day 8—Road trip. Park, make out and have car sex. Don’t break the law. Maybe just do it in the car in the garage.
Day 9—Sex while seated on chair or sofa, facing each other and facing away.
Day 10—Sensual oil massage before sex. Towels or old sheets recommended.
Day 11— Oral Sex only. Tell your partner what works and keep at it until you both orgasm.
Day 12—Let her dominate. Tell your partner what you want. Bonus Play: Ropes or handcuffs.
Day 13—She brings him to orgasm, no intercourse, hands, mouth, and body only.
Day 14—Find a new place in the house for sex.
Day 15—Each partner brings self to an orgasm seated in front of partner on bed. Same time is ideal. Share what you are feeling. Use what you like. Observe and learn.
Day 16—Advanced level Kama Sutra. Find two or three challenging positions to try.
Day 17— Add toys into your lovemaking. Vibrators, dildos, cock rings, beads, and ticklers. This session is all about finding what works. Bonus Play: We-Vibe or other shared sex toys.
Day 18— Watch porn together. Movie or 30 minutes minimum.
Day 19—Sex without intercourse. Hands, body, toys, mouths. Both must orgasm.
Day 20–Share fantasies today by email. (warning, do not use work email) Pick one to play out. Bonus Play: costumes.
Day 21—Visit a sex store together. You both must make a purchase. Sex toys, sex games, videos, or books.
Day 22—He brings her to orgasm, no intercourse. Hands, mouth, toys only.
Day 23—Take a breather… enjoy a night of just sex.
Day 24—Sex game… dice, spinner, or app. Find something fun to play.
Day 25—Slow it down sex. Fuck at ¼ speed. This is a marathon, slow and steady. 45 Minutes+ or until you both have had one or more orgasms.
Day 26—Let him dominate. He’s in charge, do what he says. Bonus Play: Ropes or handcuffs.
Day 27—Dinner out with under the table touching. Nothing illegal! Then go home or hotel for sex.
Day 28—Multiple Orgasm Day. Have a few minutes cool down with caressing after an orgasm then try to start it back up again, or just keep going!! Today, one is never enough!
Day 29—Flip a coin, Pick a dominant. Tell your partner “Do what you want to me”, but be sure to have a safe word. Try and push the limits of yours and your partner’s comfort level.
Day 30—Stay up all night—or as long as you can, having sex. Have as much sex as possible today. Explore 27 days of favorites today and try to have either 5 orgasms or sex 5 times.
Bonus Day 31—Caress, take it easy then just fuck.
Saying ‘NO’ or pausing for a day or two due to holidays, periods, business trips, or even if the partners add anything new to the list- these are few things which the couple can follow in order to successfully complete the challenge.